Relationships

The world is really a bad bad place. We always forget this. I recently attended an Industrial Visit with my collg frnds. Well it wasnt really an iv and the amount of industries we visited were quite low. We mostly travelled to popular tourist places and as all collg ivs go there was the kaand or the dark mischief that followed and i dont think so the people related to it even realised it.(sic) As all ivs go there were pairs. I had a talk with my friends about relationships n the other part. And why i dont have a girl yet (sigh). The talk was fascinating everyone likes the looks the bloody "attitude" & genitalia. What we concluded or my friends that they are at one point of time gonna dump their girl after you know what and go find another bird. They feel that even the girls have similar things in their mind and do not mind about it at all. Its just fuckin normal to dump some1 r get dumped. I seriously dunno how did they figure that out considering that even great men have failed to understand a woman's way of thinking. LOL. Are relationships all about coitus love making gifts chocolates and other shit.. and do the people who feel they are madly in love fail to see over this. I cant seem to find a logical reason for this. And what i have concluded is that either people are foolish r whatever the trend they r following is totally flawed. 

       Then comes the question that y don't i have a girl. Well i have a simple answer( at least in my terms). I will only have girl when i truly love her or have a liking of herself,her personality,her way of thinking and above all when i like her as a person. I believe this is the key to a long lasting relationship. Technically what i mean is that "that love " should be tru from the heart and just not love for the body or for personal gains. It is better to love only once to just 1 girl that to have 100 parted love with a 100 girls. I believe a relationship isn't just a physical relationship but more of a relationship of mind and two souls. N guys stop using girls as a sex object or a thing to pass time. Girls i would only like to say its a bad world and it isnt that you guys are truly honest and have nothing to do with this issue. Just want to warn u bout this shit. Both girls and boys are to blame equally. Things just happen so fast that we fail to see them. On a lighter note enjoy your life and ur girl cos u only live once. REALLY??